Introduction, who is Nikki?
Nikki is a pharmacist by day (and sometimes at
night), a lady in love with the arts (especially music), a musician in her own
‘dormot’, a fitness enthusiast, food lover and of course a naturalista! *wide grin*
When did you go natural?
Consciously or unconsciously? Lol. I say this
because I had been natural all my life up until 2003 when I decided to start
growing out my hair and then I relaxed it. I had a TWA but didn’t know that I
was ‘natural’ or that what I had was called a Teeny Weeny Afro:). I consciously decided
to go natural in 2009 when I transitioned for about 8 months. I had a relapse
in September 2010, regretted my decision and big chopped on the 3rd of March
2011 making me 2years natural.
How has your journey been so far?
The journey has been one-kind, let me not lie. Most
days I love my hair, like LOVE! And some days I am like “what is wrong with this
one sef, don’t you see your mates on YouTube and blogs?” But then I remember that the ladies on
there mostly show their good hair days so I have learnt to work with
what my hair throws at me and make it awesome.
My second time going natural was when I
decided to really study my hair. First, I learnt that my hair didn’t have a
curl pattern, then I found out my hair was low porosity. It wasn’t until late
last year that it dawned on me that my hair strands were actually thin (I had
always thought of them as thick and resilient) and densely packed. I have been
tweaking my hair regimen* (more on this later) based on these findings and my
hair has been good.
In the beginning, I was searching for miracle
products, products that would keep my hair moisturized for days, products that would
practically ‘melt’ the tangles in my hair and all that jazz. But I have realized
that it is mostly about technique; how you detangle, what tool is used, how you
moisturize, hair protection at night
etc.
Though I am still a product junkie, my junkism is not based on looking for
the next best thing, but more about me being my usual inquisitive and experimental self. Once I started being realistic about my hair, she became easier to
manage.
How does corporate Nigeria take your hair?
I haven’t had any issues with my employers, past
and present, about my hair. The people I have had issues with are my colleagues
at work. They don’t just understand why my hair is natural. They wonder why I
won’t get a relaxer like everyone else, why I would rather have my natural hair
styled than have it in extensions, if I am a member of a particular
religious group... I could go on and on. But I have not had anyone say anything
really nasty about the hair at work, at least not to my face. In fact HR
manager likes the hair sef.
I usually just try to enlighten them about natural hair
and my preference and they leave me be. Apart from these strange folks, most
people I have worked with love that I am doing something different with my
hair. Plus I have inspired some ladies in my place of work to take better care of
their hair even though they prefer to have it relaxed.
How do you deal with negative comments at work?
Forget negative comments at work because I don’t
get any from there; let’s talk about negative comments in church and other
places. Strange right?
Example 1: "Are you not a pharmacist? You will be making
so much money, If I were you I will be changing my weave-on anyhow”
Example 2:
“This your hair makes you look like a school girl oh, you have to start doing
your hair fine so you will get husband” (meanwhile guys are drawn to the ‘ugly’
hair o!)
Example 3: (This one happened at my LGA during my service year) “Do you
comb your hair at all?"
Example 4: “Come let me buy relaxer for you”.
The thing
is, because I am used to getting very nice compliments about my hair, all these
evil comments don’t get to me and I just think they are weird. I usually
answer them appropriately and smile or I ignore them totally. At one point
my mum did not understand why I went natural. She was of the opinion that it is
either my hair was a TWA or it was relaxed, that I couldn’t go about looking
unkempt. But now she likes the hair and compliments it sometimes. It is my hair
and I choose what I want to do with it.
What is your regimen?
I can’t say categorically that I have a regimen I
follow. These days, I listen to my hair and do what she wants. If my hair and
scalp feel dirty I would shampoo. If dry, I would co-wash or do a deep
condition. When I have my hair out (without extensions), I like to shampoo and
condition/deep condition my hair during the weekend. For protein treatment, I henna my hair every
3 – 4 months. I feel regular protein treatments make my hair dry and more prone
to breakage so I do more of moisturizing treatments. I moisturize and seal my
hair every other day.
A typical wash day for me would be to first finger
detangle my dry hair and put it up in 8-12 twists. Then I would shampoo with a
clay shampoo bar or do a bentonite clay treatment, rinse, apply conditioner and
then detangle properly using a wide tooth comb or a Denman brush and then
further separate the twists so I end up with 16-20 twists when I am done. On
the days I deep condition I still use a rinse out conditioner. When I am done
with wash, I wrap my hair in a towel or t-shirt to take out excess water and
then let my hair air dry. I spray my hair with aloe vera juice, seal with
castor oil and use moisturizer over that and then style when hair is fully dry.
When I have my hair in a protective style like twists, braids or
cornrows, the above regimen applies because I usually have the style in for a
week. If I have extensions, I prefer using witchhazel to clean my scalp
instead of washing because washing my hair in extensions makes it frizzy.
What are your favorite products?
When I remember to prepoo, I love to use coconut
oil. Apart from all its benefits, I like the fact that it is light I won’t be
left with buildup after shampooing. I love clay shampoo bars now, just started
using them and I am sold. Bentonite clay treatment is really awesome. These
clean my hair and scalp very well without stripping moisture. I co-wash when I
can and I love to use VO5 conditioners and Sauve Naturals Coconut Conditioner
for this purpose (these also serve as my rinse-out conditioners).
Henna for
protein treatment and Castor oil as a sealant (I blend with some other oils because Castor oil is really thick). For deep conditioning I usually amp up my regular
conditioner with oils and honey or I use avocado and honey but I have found that my hair really loves Aubrey’s Organics Honeysuckle Rose Conditioner but it isn’t always readily available.
For
moisturizers I like Shea Moisture Curl Enhancing Smoothie or Shea Moisture raw Shea Butter Restorative Conditioner. Finally my hair loves aloe vera juice, I
have been using this as a leave in since I discovered it last year.
Where can we find you?
You can find me on twitter @pharmnikki or
instagram @nikkibutterscotch or in my father’s house :).
Any last words or advice for transitioners?
It is very important to be patient. Your hair
can’t grow long overnight and it will take time to find out your favorite hair
products, detangling methods, hair styling methods etc -unless you are lucky.
Enjoy each stage of your hair journey; remember it is not something you are
used to so take it one day at a time. All the best loves!
Lol at "do you comb your hair at all?" I had a similar experience during my service year too. Plus that husband talk is old na, haba. Thanks for squeezing out time for us Nikki! The pics and info are just too mush, Oshe o. I wish I knew what you know now I went natural.
